Over the 36 years I’ve been matchmaking, one of my best attributes now is the ability to listen carefully. To follow my clients’ preferences and criteria and most importantly not to make decisions FOR them but rather WITH them. Those qualities only come with years of experience in the business of professional matchmaking. Over all …
Author Archives: Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields
ASK YOURSELF THESE QUESTIONS…
When Choosing a Matchmaking Service Consider: 1. Why haven’t I ever used a local dating/matchmaking service? 2. What has turned me off about Denver matchmaking services that I’ve either investigated or joined? 3. What does Bon Jour Matchmaking do differently? 4. What is my goal in using a personal matchmaker? 5. What is the difference between Internet …
WHAT DOES OPEN-ENDED CONTRACT MEAN?
Recently I’ve had the experience with several new clients when they initially called asking what an “open-ended contract” meant. Other Denver matchmaking services may refer to it as a “Lifetime Contract” or a “Platinum Package” and charge you a lot extra to have that benefit. EVERY client of Bon Jour has an open-ended contract! That’s …
HOW TO IMPRESS YOUR DENVER MATCHMAKER MICHELE
I start evaluating everything about you from your first contact with me. If written I notice grammar, spelling, syntax and politeness. If by phone, attitude, philosophy (i.e., it’s a numbers game how many clients do you have?), grammar and our communication styles with each other. This is such a personal endeavor it is important that …
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MEDIA CENTER
Television, Radio, Newspapers and Magazines Television: 1. The Gordon Elliott Show, New York, New York, appeared as a relationship expert 2. In Person with Maureen O’Boyle, New York, New York, appeared as a dating expert 3. KWGN Channel 7 News, Denver, Colorado, appeared in two feature stories about matchmaking and relationships 4. KUSA Channel 9 News, Denver, Colorado, appeared …
WHY YOU MAY NOT BE THE RIGHT CLIENT FOR THIS DENVER MATCHMAKER
Singles hire a matchmaker because they are having trouble of some kind in their interactions with dating. Yes, it is to find the right person who has as yet been elusive, but there may be many things you yourself are doing that derail, curtail or just plain prevent successful long term relationships. One glaring example …
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HOW TO BE A REALISTIC DENVER MATCHMAKING CLIENT
When hiring a Denver Matchmaker you share the responsibility with the Matchmaker to work together, put your best foot forward, have an amicable relationship with that Matchmaker and be realistic in your expectations. If you join a Denver matchmaking service it is their responsibility to show your profile to the most appropriate candidates. Not to …
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YOUR PICTURES FOR BON JOUR MATCHMAKING SERVICE
New Picture Policy Traditionally Bon Jour has taken pictures at the time of the interview at no charge to the client. I feel that the client is more relaxed in their own environment taking their time and having a friend take lots of shots, then sending me the best ones. That’s what often happens anyway …
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THE BEST ASPECTS OF BON JOUR MATCHMAKING SERVICE
Open-ended contract…you are a client until you reach your goal; One Matchmaker who knows ALL of her clients; You are ONLY introduced to my clients who I’ve met personally, interviewed and who have had a background check; 35 years of experience in Colorado matchmaking; 300+ marriages; Feedback both positive and negative to assist you; Coaching to correct unproductive and …
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