Yourone-time investmentin thisopen-ended contractis evaluated based on the following. The investment fee is a range and is reached by the information supplied below. Be sure to disclose any of this information that applies to you as it MAY LOWER your investment fee during your FREE phone consultation. Do not wait until you are in the middle of your interview to share this as it will not change at that time:

• The location where you live;
• Whether you’ve been vaccinated/boosted (many of my clients will not consider meeting anyone who is not vax/boosted);
• Your age: Women 27-60  Men 30-65;
• The age range you wish to meet;
• How many times you’ve been married;
• Whether you’ve ever been married;
• For men…your height (5’7″+);
• For women…your size (Size 10 or under);
• Tattoos (do not accept people with body or sleeve tattoos);
• How many pets you have;
• The specific criteria you…

Bon Jour is the only service that connects people who really want a relationship. Sloan D.

I had confidence in the level of detail on the website. Michele Fields is no nonsense and direct and she has a serious and sincere clientele. Matt E.

Open ended contract, fair investment, lots of information. Justin B.

After speaking with Michele I felt confident that she was skilled at her profession. Dr. D

She seemed more sincere. Not a money mill! Brad K.

The personal attention. With It’s Just Lunch I felt as if they didn’t even look at my profile. Daren, Esq.

The reviews and Michele’s interaction with the clients. Patrick A.

I think Michele works hard to find someone who is a good fit. Dave A.

I was impressed with the length of time that Michele has spent in business in the Denver area-it’s clear that this is her calling. I…

How do I know if a dating service is legitimate?

Of course, view the Denver Better Business Bureau website and/or if you like a consumer advocate on any local news stations call them and ask if they know anything about that service. For example, a service in Colorado Springs claims on their website to have been in business since 1987. However, if you look them up on the BBB it states that they were established in 1993! So, it does pay to check the BBB and don’t just look at the rating. Even a service with an A rating may have had complaints if you scroll down the information. There is a local service (I forget now which one) who had 5 complaints in 36 months but still has an A rating! Perhaps the BBB is a little liberal with their rating system, but still worth checking out.

Google lots…

One Little Suggestion Can Help You Succeed

In the 33+ years I’ve been matchmaking the one component that people who meet a mate possess is….they don’t raise their standards just because they are in a service.  All of the Bon Jour Matchmaking Service clients who married (626 people) were realistic in their expectations and chose matches that they would choose anywhere else outside of the service had they had the good fortune to meet them.

When you join a local service, you are exposed to singles who you would never have met otherwise.  They may travel a lot or live in communities you never visit.  They may be involved in some activities slightly different than yours, so you don’t meet through those.  Take advantage of the fact that but for Bon Jour (or any local service) your paths would never have crossed.

Over the years I’ve seen clients turn down…

When you first contact me to ask questions about my service, that is when we both start evaluating whether my structure, philosophy and personality fit for you and I assess whether you are someone my clientele would be interested in meeting, truly understand my philosophy, whether you are realistic, your dating attitude and whether we communicate well enough to work together.  To make this a successful partnership both sides have to fit…just like with your matches.

As it says all over my website this is anOLD FASHIONED MATCHMAKING SERVICE. Presumably you are calling me because you understand that and all that means. So to ask me how many are in my “database” right off the bat tells me you don’t get it. My clients are not a “database”, they are clients. Would you want to be considered part of a database or a client? One implies a much…

Which Do You Prefer?

Are you the type of person who falls for charm and charisma and lives to regret it? Those charismatic charmers are often called scammers. I have a relative who is very, very charismatic, however once he’s “got” you he’s like a snake and will bite you the minute you are off guard. Yes, they are wonderful to chat with but beware of doing business with them or getting romantically involved.

When you are doing business and making a financial investment whether it be with a financial advisor or a personal Matchmaker, is it more important to you that they have a “good bedside manner” even if they are not trustworthy? There are many business owners like that in all categories of business who have left a trail of very pissed off people behind them. In the long run the truth is the most important component regardless…

When you decide to work with me at Bon Jour Matchmaking there is an agreement on both parts.  As your personal Matchmaker I will make every effort to point you in the right direction, counsel you when you receive negative feedback, step in when I feel you may be doing something to sabotage your success and coach you in a variety of areas.  I will select people especially for you who you describe at the time of your interview you wish to meet and you will always have the final say based on photos and a detailed profile whether this person feels good to you.

As a client of Bon Jour Matchmaking presumably you have hired me, not only for my expertise in matching you and for the high quality of clientele I represent, but also to steer you in the right direction when you lose your way.  To coach…

Who hasn’t wondered what happened when a relationship with so much potential ended.  Why someone didn’t call you back after a first date.  I know the answers right from my clients’ mouths.  If you view some of the Posts on POSTS TO READ BEFORE JOINING ANY DENVER MATCHMAKING SERVICE you will see some that will cause you to have a light bulb over your head reaction.

Whether you are a Denver single who uses any venue to help you meet the “right” person, it becomes both of your responsibilities to make that work.  Through 33+ years of feedback after initial meetings and throughout the dating experience from both sides I have accumulated insights as to why things did not work out.  As a client of Bon Jour Matchmaking I coach you through your dating experience which also gives you information about what the other person is thinking or may be…

How to Interpret Negative Yelp Reviews of Businesses

Owning a matchmaking service is a slippery slope…you are managing people’s hopes and dreams as well as egos and expectations.  Many people who join a service have higher criteria for the people they meet in the service than they would in the “real” world.  So they may turn down potential introductions that could have blossomed into a lifetime if they had not been so overly particular.

Regarding negative reviews…people have many agendas when writing either a positive or negative review of a business. Specifically in a matchmaking or dating service, again we are talking about hopes, dreams and ego. If a person was unsuccessful for any reason they may have a vendetta against that service. It may have nothing to do with the service itself, the owner or even the clients. In fact it may have alot to do with that client’s…