MATCHMAKING, COACHING, LISTENING AND LEARNING AT THIS DENVER MATCHMAKING SERVICE

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Hiring a matchmaking service is a lot like hiring a financial adviser to direct you in the stock market. You invest your money hoping for a large return; you have patience because the market can go up and down and you are basically making an educated decision about this form of investment.Likewise in a matchmaking service your investment is in the hopes that you will meet people who you’ve been searching for up to this point; you are directed by the matchmaker which candidates (like stocks) will give you the best return; it can take time to meet the most appropriate matches and they may be successful or not. It’s an investment in the process. Again, patience is key.With my open-ended contract you have the best opportunity to meet the “right” person when they present themselves.

Bon Jour Matchmaking Service not only matches you with an abundance…

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SO THIS IS WHY YOU WORK WITH A SEASONED PROFESSIONAL MATCHMAKER

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A beautiful, successful mother, businesswoman and model joined Bon Jour Matchmaking in 2013.  She met a couple of men but not “the one”.  Recently I have been cultivating a relationship with a Denver meteorologist going through a divorce with this client in mind.  Once he was divorced he joined Bon Jour and she was the first one I suggested that he meet.

Since they laid eyes on each other they are crazy about each other and very hopeful this will go long term permanent.  Due to her patience with the process and his willingness to give this type of approach a try, although he was very skeptical about working with a professional Denver matchmaker, he now says that he feels they would not have had as open communication and feedback had he not gone this route.  He feels that having a professional matchmaker has made the process seamless and comfortable…

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REVIEW FROM MY CLIENT OF A DENVER MATCHMAKING SERVICE

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Hi Michele,

I know you like to post on your website warning single people of the local Denver matchmaking services that are less than scrupulous. As you know, I used It’s Just Lunch (should be called, It’s Just a Huge Waste of Your Time and Money) before I started working with you at Bon Jour Matchmaking. I’ve had problems with them calling me every few months ever since I stopped using their service…which I stopped in July 2012!

I hope you can warn people – do not give these people your contact information. They will just keep calling and calling until they drive you crazy, even if you spell out for them exactly what you didn’t like and tell them in no uncertain terms you would NEVER utilize their so called service again. I would complain to their Corporate HQ but the people that run this are so dishonest, I…

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A REAL, LIVE MATCHMAKER and “Matchmaking Services” Who Sell Dates

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WHAT’S THE DIFFERENCE?

Let me count the ways that I am different from all those “matchmaking services” who sell packages of dates!  First of all that says it right there…they sell packages of DATES so they are DENVER DATING SERVICES NOT MATCHMAKERS.

Why, why, why would anyone pay thousands of dollars to let someone you’ve met briefly decide FOR YOU who you are going to meet when you’ve only bought so many DATES?  They give you no information, no pictures and they make the decisions.  Consistently their reviews state over and over that clients were not set up with people who fit their criteria.  Even when they’ve specified repeatedly what they are looking for.  You know why?  All the service has to do is throw how ever many people you’ve bought in a package at you and they’ve met the contract.  Really, does that sound like a matchmaking service???

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OMG LOOK WHAT DENVER MATCHMAKERS ARE CHARGING!

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This information was taken directly from the VIDA website in 2020 (Those fees have probably increased since this posting) and current fees from Kris Kenny’s website 2022:

THE DENVER DATING COMPANY:

https://kdvr.com/news/local/denver-singles-site-had-barely-any-women-on-it-lawsuit-claims/

Just received a call from a woman who went in to do a consultation with them. She expressed that they were disorganized and lied about a number of things such as length of time in business stating they’ve been in business 22 years. So I went on the BBB site and they have an F rating and have only been in business ONE YEAR! Also on the BBB they listed the owner as Mrs. Owner so they won’t disclose who owns and operates that service. I’m surprised the BBB accepted that! DO NOT GIVE THIS COMPANY YOUR SOCIAL SECURITY NUMBER (OR ANY COMPANY). THEY DO NOT NEED IT TO DO A BACKGROUND CHECK!!!

KRIS KENNY CONNECTIONS

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DENVER SINGLES KNOW WHAT THEY LIKE SAYS THIS DENVER MATCHMAKER

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Denver Singles Have Specific Preferences Based on their Sex

In the 33+ years that I have been matchmaking in Denver, there are certain criteria which both sexes consistently prefer.  It’s simple:

99% of the women prefer men with hair, who are tall (at least 5’8″ plus) and clean-shaven.  Women do not care for facial hair and especially dislike mustaches.

98.5% of the men prefer slim, toned, fit or slender women and specific to Colorado (which is no surprise) athletic/outdoorsy builds.

Both sexes in Colorado focus much of their preferences and attention on how athletic and/or outdoorsy a possible mate should be.  With both men and women, through my own life experience and watching the most successful Bon Jour couples, the ones who succeed and are in it for the long-haul focus more on morals and values.  They know that interests can be cultivated.

Things that tend not to matter to…

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AN OLD FASHIONED MATCHMAKER WITH A PERSONALIZED FEE!

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Bon Jour Matchmaking Service Designs a Fee Just For YOU

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Rather than charging a flat fee for all clients, at Bon Jour Matchmaking Service I have decided, after 33 years of matchmaking, that your investment should reflect specific components of each client’s situation.  There is a one-time investment that is good for as long as you are in the service on your open-ended contract.

When singles contact me it is important to know their age, the age range they wish to date, their desire to have children, their location and other factors all together which comprise their personal investment.  You must CALL and speak with me to receive a fee that is specifically designed for you!  Fees are not quoted through e-mails.

So unlike all of the other Denver matchmaking, dating services or social clubs in town who charge everyone…

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REVIEW OF THE MOST EXPENSIVE MATCHMAKERS

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This was taken from the Huffington Post.

Woman sues millionaire matchmakers, Kelleher & Associates, who she paid $45k to ‘set her up with convicted criminals, a man looking for friends with benefits, a sexually promiscuous Internet sex toy purveyor and an animal hater’

By Rachel Quigley

PUBLISHED: 08:10 EST, 20 September 2012 | UPDATED: 08:14 EST, 20 September 2012

A 59-year-old woman is suing a millionaire matchmaking company who she claims set her up with countless unsuitable matches despite the fact she paid the mother-daughter duo $45,000 to find her someone who fit her profile.

In 2008, Joan E. Cooke, from Florida, hired premier matchmaking firm Kelleher & Associates, run by former Hollywood actresses Amber Kelleher and her daughter Jill – who boasted clients who were Grammy award-winning singers, producers and actors.

But this was far from what Ms Cooke – an executive at two healthcare firms – was matched…

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I’M INVESTED IN YOUR MATCHMAKING SUCCESS…BUT ARE YOU?

99.9% of my clients understand that our relationship is a collaboration.  They have chosen to work with Bon Jour Matchmaking Service because they trust in my personal relationships with all of my clients and my extensive years of experience in Denver matchmaking.

If you choose to become a client I would hope that you strongly appreciate my judgment as to whether your photos will be successful as well as your Personal Narrative.  How do I know?  Because I am either sitting with a client as they view your profile or I read it to them over the phone and receive their feedback.  So I am not guessing how they respond, I know.

I am invested in your experience in Bon Jour Matchmaking being a success and would hope and require that you are equally invested.  So, rather than disagreeing with me when I make a suggestion or give you direction, understand that I know from 33+ years of matchmaking what works and what doesn’t AND I’m getting both sides of the story.  Clearly what you’ve been doing isn’t working if you are considering my service.

If you realize that there is something amiss in what you’ve been doing to meet the “right one”, than please realize that I’ve facilitated 300+ marriages so I must know something …at the least I know my clients and what they respond favorably to.  Don’t you want a Matchmaker who really knows her clients rather than several “matchmakers” who only know a few clients each?  That is one of the many outstanding features of Bon Jour Matchmaking…another is the open-ended contract.

WHY CLIENTS SAY THEY CHOSE BON JOUR MATCHMAKING SERVICE

Bon Jour is the only service that connects people who really want a relationship. Sloan D.

I had confidence in the level of detail on the website. Michele Fields is no nonsense and direct and she has a serious and sincere clientele. Matt E.

Open ended contract, fair investment, lots of information. Justin B.

After speaking with Michele I felt confident that she was skilled at her profession. Dr. D

She seemed more sincere. Not a money mill! Brad K.

The personal attention. With It’s Just Lunch I felt as if they didn’t even look at my profile. Daren, Esq.

The reviews and Michele’s interaction with the clients. Patrick A.

I think Michele works hard to find someone who is a good fit. Dave A.

I was impressed with the length of time that Michele has spent in business in the Denver area-it’s clear that this is her calling. I also thought that the open-ended contract was unique and shows that she’s really committed to finding the right match for people, not just limiting your matches to who is immediately available. Taylor H.

I was impressed by Michele’s personalized and localized approach. I appreciate that she meets with each and every one of her clients. Kate D., Phd

I want to find someone to share my life with and appreciate the hands on, personal approach. Julie C.

Because it feels very personalized and isn’t a sales pitch to take your money. Nicole B.