Should you decide you need a payment plan for your investment fee, you may pay up to 3 payments until you reach your fee total.
If you choose this plan, you may view client profiles and make your selections, however you will not be presented to those selections or new potential matches until you are paid in full and become a full client.
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Almost every person who calls me says I’m the only matchmaking service they have called or are planning on calling! When asked why, it is a resounding “authenticity”!
The definition of authentic is…from Merriam Webster: Genuine, bona fide means being actually and exactly what is claimed. Authentic implies being fully trustworthy as according with fact.
I can’t think of a greater compliment! I point to this description as the reason Bon Jour Matchmaking Service has been facilitating marriages for 36 years!
In some reviews people have spoken untruths as well as inaccuracies mostly on Yelp…mostly because I decided not to accept them as a client. I am not going to waste your time, money and energy representing you if you do not fit what my clients have set forth as their preferences and criteria at that point in time, OR who doesn’t understand my philosophy and structure. Be grateful I didn’t scam you out of your money and told you the truth.
Bon Jour is not a franchise or owned by several owners. I am the sole proprietor and sole matchmaker who has interviewed and knows all of my clients. After 36 years my goal is your goal, not to see how much money I can make.
Bon Jour Matchmaking’s philosophy is and always has been that we work as a team. I am a facilitator, confidant, coach and matchmaker who has interviewed every single client face-to-face. As such I have a personal relationship with each client assisting me in choosing the best potential matches for them. BUT I do not make the final decision on who they meet. Each client makes that decision based on a myriad of information and pictures. We discuss each option, but clients have the last word on who they choose to meet.
The reason Bon Jour has been so successful over 35 years is because there are really 3 of us making each decision. I decide which potential matches to share with clients. The client decides who they are most interested in. Then that client decides if the match is right for them. They say that 2 heads are better than 1. But 3 heads are even better!!!
I share feedback from each client both good and not so good, so clients have a true understanding of what is going on early in potential relationships, thus leading to successful couplings.
A business cannot last and succeed for 35 years without intense scrutiny of potential clients. My priority in matchmaking is not to see how much money I can accrue. Matchmaking is not what I do…matchmaking is who I am.
Potential clients don’t realize that I start evaluating them from the first contact they make with me, whether it be verbal or email. I notice everything. Having a reliable, responsive, engaged clientele is why Bon Jour Matchmaking is and has always been so successful!
Some potential clients have said, well I was going to be responsive once I became a client. Oh noooooo…if I assess prior to that, that you’re not responding or sending me what I’ve requested, you will not become a client.
Having the best clientele selected by me is one of the core reasons for their success!
The way people treat each other on Internet dating sites and dating apps is not acceptable in Bon Jour Matchmaking!
Clients are investing in potential matches who show them respect in all ways. If a client is not interested in someone they meet, they can’t just ghost them. You have to be a grown up and let them know you are not interested. It’s not that hard! I’ve done it a million times during my dating life. It may sting at first, but briefly, rather than having someone wonder what’s going on for days or weeks. And I feel clients appreciate the honesty and maturity, and deserve better.
If you want to jerk people around, use those mentioned above or other local Denver dating services. The reason Bon Jour turned 35 years old this year is due to how I require clients to treat each other…and me…
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