You can count on Bon Jour Matchmaking NOT to sell my clients out! Several times a year I receive either calls or emails from domestic “matchmakers” who took peoples’ money knowing they have no clients to introduce them to. Consequently, they contact matchmakers in those states asking them to “pimp out” their clients to fulfill …
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NOW I TOTALLY GET WHAT CLIENTS REFER TO AS A WASTE OF TIME DATING APPS
I have so many singles call me who have tried many dating apps and express frustration and more. Years ago, I tried the online dating sites myself and found they left something to be desired. So, I thought I would go on an app now and see exactly what these singles are talking about. OMG!!! …
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BEWARE…WHEN SEARCHING FOR A MATCHMAKING SERVICE
With 36+ years of experience in the matchmaking profession, I can tell you what types of matchmaking services should be avoided right off the bat. Services that do not post their fees: There are a few reasons why a service does not post their fees on their website. High priced services; high pressure services that …
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LEARN TO BE APPRECIATIVE
In the past 6 months I’ve had many people call for Bon Jour Matchmaking. In many of the cases I had to either turn people down because they did not fit what my clientele is searching for, or because I didn’t feel that I could meet their criteria. In some cases I asked them to …
DO NOT CALL BON JOUR IF…YOU ARE CALLING FOR SOMEONE ELSE
I’ve been a personal/professional matchmaker for 36 years in Bon Jour Matchmaking. Consistently when someone, a parent, sibling, friend or grandparent has called for their single loved one it has never worked out. That person has to be interested enough for a relationship and have the initiative themselves to make that call. There are questions …
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MATCHMAKING IS A TRUE PARTNERSHIP
Bon Jour Matchmaking’s philosophy is and always has been that we work as a team. I am a facilitator, confidant, coach and matchmaker who has interviewed every single client face-to-face. As such I have a personal relationship with each client assisting me in choosing the best potential matches for them. BUT I do not make …
REASONS I MIGHT DECLINE TO WORK TOGETHER
As I’ve mentioned several times on this site, I probably decline more people than I accept in Bon Jour Matchmaking. There are several reasons I may suggest we don’t go forward. The reason for this is because regardless of your income or worth, it is still an investment both in your commitment and your one-time …
TOO BUSY TO NURTURE A RELATIONSHIP?
As mentioned previously on this website, I have a Behavioral Agreement for every client. The purpose is to optimize your success for a potential relationship. My clients are great for the most part at adhering to the Agreement. However, over the 34 years I have had some who were so busy they ruined any chance …
COLORADO MATCHMAKING/DATING SERVICES SPREADING THEMSELVES THIN
There are services, one in particular, that are branching off in many directions basically to make more money. These services cannot possibly be focusing on matchmaking their singles when they are branching out into other business ventures. Also, singles, don’t confuse Denver matchmaking services with Denver dating services. There is a definite difference between the …
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TRUST ME…I’VE BEEN A PROFESSIONAL MATCHMAKER FOR 34 YEARS
Presumably if you are considering hiring a Denver matchmaker it’s because you have not had success on your own. Either because of the venues you’ve chosen or things you have done that didn’t work. When you hire any professional you defer to their experience and wisdom or else what is the point in working with …
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