As I’ve explained in several previous posts, I turn many people down if I don’t feel they fit what my clients have set forth for their criteria and preferences. Also, if I find them combative in the FREE phone consultation. My feeling is, if you don’t like my structure, or whatever, don’t call and argue …
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This is NOT a sales call. It is merely an exchange of information to see whether you fit the preferences and criteria of my current clientele AND whether Bon Jour fits what you are looking for. I ask how you found me so I can assess which types of venues appeal to singles searching for …
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November 8, 2024…I have learned many lessons over this 36-year career. The reason, I’m told by my clients, that my service is so successful, is that I am so discerning who to accept as a client. Over the years my assessment has not always been correct, and I have learned from those mistakes. I have …
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When deciding to use a matchmaking service one of the most important considerations is are you looking to “date” or to “mate”. You should feel that your investment is in your future, starting a brand-new life with someone who you have chosen who has chosen you. If you are truly serious about finding love, then …
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Rather than feeling like people perceive you as desperate or a loser, you should really feel that because you are so special and have so much going for you that you’ve chosen to have the exclusive representation of a professional matchmaker! Working with a Denver matchmaker is not something you should feel embarrassed about. Do …
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As a veteran matchmaker I do not consider matchmaking a numbers game. You will never see me sell a certain number of matches for an unreasonably excessive fee with no profile or photos to assist you in your selection. As your matchmaker I offer clients as many matches as they feel are the best fit …
I was contacted this week by a New York writer doing an article on “high end” matchmaking services. He wanted my take on several comments to him by some “high end” matchmakers. He shared that one of the “matchmakers” said she has 2,000 women and only 30 men. Well, I knew right away what was …
Because these terms are used interchangeably, most people don’t realize there is a significant difference between dating and matchmaking services. The most obvious is…if the name says “dating” then it IS a dating service. What that means is they sell you a package of DATES at an exorbitant fee for a limited period of time. …
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Michele is the only real matchmaker I found. Jon Labrum Bon Jour is the only service that connects people who really want a relationship. Sloan D. I had confidence in the level of detail on the website. Michele Fields is no nonsense and direct and she has a serious and sincere clientele. Matt E. Open ended contract, fair …
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Open-ended contract…you are a client until…until you reach your goal; One Matchmaker who knows ALL of her clients; You are ONLY introduced to my clients who I’ve met personally, interviewed and who have had a background check; 34 years of experience in Colorado matchmaking; 300+ marriages; Feedback both positive and negative to assist you; Background checks at MY …
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