For the past 33+ years (since 1989) my goal has always been to provide a full service matchmaking experience for each and every client. To assist clients in avoiding ruts, bad habits, poor choices and mistakes I myself have made. I am very interactive with each client with lots of suggestions and coaching if needed. To work only with …
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HOW TO SUCCEED WITH LOCAL DENVER MATCHMAKERS
In the 33+ years I’ve been matchmaking, the one component that people who meet a mate possess is…they don’t raise their standards just because they are in a service. All of the Bon Jour Matchmaking Service clients who married (600+ people, 300+ couples) were realistic in their expectations and chose matches that they would choose …
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YOU NEVER AGE OUT AT BON JOUR MATCHMAKING SERVICE
I have been asked on the rare occasion whether someone who is at the higher end of the age range will “age out” when they reach the highest age. So, I thought I would address that… NO, it IS an open-ended contract. That said, you have to realize whether you are male or female that …
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DIRECT AND HONEST or CHARISMATIC AND UNTRUSTWORTHY
Which Do You Prefer? Are you the type of person who falls for charm and charisma and lives to regret it? Those charismatic charmers are often called scammers. I have a relative who is very, very charismatic, however once he’s “got” you he’s like a snake and will bite you the minute you are off …
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Legitimate Denver Matchmaking Services
How do I know if a dating service is legitimate? Of course, view the Denver Better Business Bureau website and/or if you like a consumer advocate on any local news stations call them and ask if they know anything about that service. For example, a service in Colorado Springs claims on their website to have …
IN BON JOUR MATCHMAKING WE ARE PARTNERS
When you first contact me to ask questions about my service, that is when we both start evaluating whether my structure, philosophy and personality fit for you and I assess whether you are someone my clientele would be interested in meeting, truly understand my philosophy, whether you are realistic, your dating attitude and whether we …
SINGLES, YOU MUST BE BETTER CONSUMERS WITH DENVER MATCHMAKING SERVICES
I am hearing from Denver singles on a regular basis how disappointed they are in the local matchmaking services they’ve chosen. It is always the same reasons…too expensive, no information or photos of prospective matches, matches who are not even close to the criteria set forth initially/ongoing and a lack of interaction with the owner/matchmakers …
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MATCHMAKING REVIEWS AND REVIEWERS
Wow, you really need to be skeptical about certain reviews. I had an issue with a new client who just would not follow through on aspects of setting up her profile and moving forward. Although I explained the necessity for this Narrative which completes your profile, she had excuse after excuse why she didn’t write …
HOW TO BE A REALISTIC MATCHMAKING CLIENT
When hiring a Matchmaker, you share the responsibility with the Matchmaker to work together, put your best foot forward, have an amicable relationship and be realistic in your expectations. If you join a matchmaking service it is their responsibility to show your profile to the most appropriate candidates. Not to waste your time setting you …
I AM A REAL MATCHMAKER LOOKING OUT FOR MY CLIENTS
Bon Jour Matchmaking Service is a REAL matchmaking service, not a dating service calling itself a “matchmaking” service! You probably can tell that from the rest of this site and the immense amount of information contained in it. I have 2 contracts that every client signs. One is your contract stipulating your fee, what you …
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