POSTS TO READ BEFORE JOINING ANY MATCHMAKING SERVICE

Read These Pearls of Wisdom Before Investing in a Service (Click on the title to go to the Post) Everything You Want to Know About This Denver Matchmaking Service IS THIS YOU? THEN YOU ARE A GOOD PROSPECT FOR BON JOUR MATCHMAKING Bon Jour Matchmaking’s Mission Statement How To Impress Your Denver Matchmaker What Effects …

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HOW TO SUCCEED WITH LOCAL DENVER MATCHMAKERS

In the 33+ years I’ve been matchmaking, the one component that people who meet a mate possess is…they don’t raise their standards just because they are in a service.  All of the Bon Jour Matchmaking Service clients who married (600+ people, 300+ couples) were realistic in their expectations and chose matches that they would choose …

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WHAT TYPES OF SINGLES ARE THE MOST SUCCESSFUL WHEN WORKING WITH A DENVER MATCHMAKER?

Since 1989 I’ve observed the types of people who have the most success working with me.  Contrary to popular belief they are not the most beautiful or handsome, in fact they are usually average to a bit above average.  They are not the richest men, they are realistic men and women.  They pay attention to …

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YOU NEVER AGE OUT AT BON JOUR MATCHMAKING SERVICE

I have been asked on the rare occasion whether someone who is at the higher end of the age range will “age out” when they reach the highest age. So, I thought I would address that… NO, it IS an open-ended contract. That said, you have to realize whether you are male or female that …

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DIRECT AND HONEST or CHARISMATIC AND UNTRUSTWORTHY

Which Do You Prefer? Are you the type of person who falls for charm and charisma and lives to regret it?  Those charismatic charmers are often called scammers.  I have a relative who is very, very charismatic, however once he’s “got” you he’s like a snake and will bite you the minute you are off …

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Legitimate Denver Matchmaking Services

How do I know if a dating service is legitimate? Of course, view the Denver Better Business Bureau website and/or if you like a consumer advocate on any local news stations call them and ask if they know anything about that service.  For example, a service in Colorado Springs claims on their website to have …

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IN BON JOUR MATCHMAKING WE ARE PARTNERS

When you first contact me to ask questions about my service, that is when we both start evaluating whether my structure, philosophy and personality fit for you and I assess whether you are someone my clientele would be interested in meeting, truly understand my philosophy, whether you are realistic, your dating attitude and whether we …

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SINGLES, YOU MUST BE BETTER CONSUMERS WITH DENVER MATCHMAKING SERVICES

I am hearing from Denver singles on a regular basis how disappointed they are in the local matchmaking services they’ve chosen.  It is always the same reasons…too expensive, no information or photos of prospective matches, matches who are not even close to the criteria set forth initially/ongoing and a lack of interaction with the owner/matchmakers …

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MATCHMAKING REVIEWS AND REVIEWERS

Wow, you really need to be skeptical about certain reviews. I had an issue with a new client who just would not follow through on aspects of setting up her profile and moving forward. Although I explained the necessity for this Narrative which completes your profile, she had excuse after excuse why she didn’t write …

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HOW TO BE A REALISTIC MATCHMAKING CLIENT

When hiring a Matchmaker, you share the responsibility with the Matchmaker to work together, put your best foot forward, have an amicable relationship and be realistic in your expectations. If you join a matchmaking service it is their responsibility to show your profile to the most appropriate candidates. Not to waste your time setting you …

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