Bon Jour is the only service that connects people who really want a relationship. Sloan D.

I had confidence in the level of detail on the website. Michele Fields is no nonsense and direct and she has a serious and sincere clientele.Matt E.

Open ended contract, fair investment, lots of information.Justin B.

After speaking with Michele I felt confident that she was skilled at her profession.Dr. D

She seemed more sincere. Not a money mill!Brad K.

The personal attention. With It’s Just Lunch I felt as if they didn’t even look at my profile.Daren, Esq.

The reviews and Michele’s interaction with the clients.Patrick A.

I think Michele works hard to find someone who is a good fit.Dave A.

I was impressed with the length of time that Michele has spent in business in the Denver area-it’s clear that this is her calling. I…

A matchmaker has met with (in-person) and interviewed ALL of her/his clients. She/he has an extensive profile on each client for prospects to view, along with several current pictures. In a matchmaking service the client and matchmaker work together collaboratively to select the most appropriate match. Both clients should be able to talk prior to their initial meeting and set up their own time and place. Communication starts right there. A true matchmaker ONLY matches clients with the most appropriate people who fit, on both sides, the criteria and preferences each has set forth. A professional matchmaker requires feedback and shares and coaches each client to help every match have the best chance of success.

A dating service for the most part sells you a package of dates. They have several different plans and fees. They have finite contracts. In dating services that have several “matchmakers” no one knows ALL…

I do not decide exclusively upon my own criteria whether we should work together.  Primarily that has been decided by my current clients who have been very specific as to their preferences and criteria…just like you would be if you were a client.  Bon Jour is the ONLY Denver matchmaking service that does not have ANY reviews stating the client was set up with people who did not fit their specified criteria.  So, don’t take it personally and don’t blame the messenger (me) if I feel that we shouldn’t work together.  Rather be grateful that I told you the truth and did not scam you out of your money!

Just to try and make things simpler, following is a list of traits that will tell you if you and Bon Jour Matchmaking Service are a good match which include both my perimeters and my clients’ criteria:

1. You have read to…

CALL ME…This is NOT a “sales” call, merely an exchange of information.

Both male and female clients hire Bon Jour Matchmaking to find them fairly “perfect people”.  Minimum wrinkles, not too short, not fat, not too thin, not too tall, youthful, vibrant, athletic, etc., etc., etc.  My clients have much to offer in many categories which include sports, education, financially, careers, appearance, kindness and the list goes on.  But what gets in the way of many people’s success whether it be with me, other Denver matchmakers, Denver dating services or the Internet dating sites is that they are looking for perfection.  Above are pictures of happy, successful couples married 40+ years.  These couples did not meet through Bon Jour.  They met years before I started Bon Jour Matchmaking.  These are real people having real and successful relationships:  They are not models, they are people who were lucky enough to…

When you call for your FREE phone consultation you may ask how many people you will meet.  First of all that is primarily up to you.  When I show you profiles at the time of your interview if you do not select anyone that is your prerogative.  If once you are on file as a client you turn down everyone who wants to meet you then, again, that is up to you.

I have no way of knowing how many people you will meet and my goal is not to set you up with everyone in town.This is matchmaking. The phone consultation does not go into the detailed depth that the interview does so by the time I know your background and all of your criteria and preferences at the interview the number of prospective matches obviously will go down. This is matchmaking, the information has to fit…

Hiring a matchmaking service is a lot like hiring a financial adviser to direct you in the stock market. You invest your money hoping for a large return; you have patience because the market can go up and down and you are basically making an educated decision about this form of investment.Likewise in a matchmaking service your investment is in the hopes that you will meet people who you’ve been searching for up to this point; you are directed by the matchmaker which candidates (like stocks) will give you the best return; it can take time to meet the most appropriate matches and they may be successful or not. It’s an investment in the process. Again, patience is key.With my open-ended contract you have the best opportunity to meet the “right” person when they present themselves.

Bon Jour Matchmaking Service not only matches you with an abundance…

A beautiful, successful mother, businesswoman and model joined Bon Jour Matchmaking in 2013.  She met a couple of men but not “the one”.  Recently I have been cultivating a relationship with a Denver meteorologist going through a divorce with this client in mind.  Once he was divorced he joined Bon Jour and she was the first one I suggested that he meet.

Since they laid eyes on each other they are crazy about each other and very hopeful this will go long term permanent.  Due to her patience with the process and his willingness to give this type of approach a try, although he was very skeptical about working with a professional Denver matchmaker, he now says that he feels they would not have had as open communication and feedback had he not gone this route.  He feels that having a professional matchmaker has made the process seamless and comfortable…

Hi Michele,

I know you like to post on your website warning single people of the local Denver matchmaking services that are less than scrupulous. As you know, I used It’s Just Lunch (should be called, It’s Just a Huge Waste of Your Time and Money) before I started working with you at Bon Jour Matchmaking. I’ve had problems with them calling me every few months ever since I stopped using their service…which I stopped in July 2012!

I hope you can warn people – do not give these people your contact information. They will just keep calling and calling until they drive you crazy, even if you spell out for them exactly what you didn’t like and tell them in no uncertain terms you would NEVER utilize their so called service again. I would complain to their Corporate HQ but the people that run this are so dishonest, I…

WHAT’S THE DIFFERENCE?

Let me count the ways that I am different from all those “matchmaking services” who sell packages of dates!  First of all that says it right there…they sell packages of DATES so they are DENVER DATING SERVICES NOT MATCHMAKERS.

Why, why, why would anyone pay thousands of dollars to let someone you’ve met briefly decide FOR YOU who you are going to meet when you’ve only bought so many DATES?  They give you no information, no pictures and they make the decisions.  Consistently their reviews state over and over that clients were not set up with people who fit their criteria.  Even when they’ve specified repeatedly what they are looking for.  You know why?  All the service has to do is throw how ever many people you’ve bought in a package at you and they’ve met the contract.  Really, does that sound like a matchmaking service???