Not Ready to Commit to a Matchmaker, Try This…

Before investing a lot of money choosing the wrong business or type of structure, chat with me for 30 minutes for $50 to insure you are making the right decision for you.  Use PayPal to make this minimal investment.

Between my vast experience personally dating for 40 years and my extensive experience matchmaking for 32 years I am fully qualified to counsel, guide, and coach you.

Or if you are not ready to commit to a matchmaking service or matchmaker, I can help you navigate the best venue for you, give you coaching, answer any questions you may have about local and national services so that you find the best venue for your goals and personality.

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WHY CLIENTS CHOSE BON JOUR

After speaking with Michele I felt confident that she was skilled at her profession. Dr. D

She seemed more sincere. Not a money mill! Brad K.

The personal attention. With It’s Just Lunch I felt as if they didn’t even look at my profile. Daren, Esq.

The reviews and Michele’s interaction with the clients. Patrick A.

I think Michele works hard to find someone who is a good fit. Dave A.

I was impressed with the length of time that Michele has spent in business in the Denver area-it’s clear that this is her calling. I also thought that the open-ended contract was unique and shows that she’s really committed to finding the right match for people, not just limiting your matches to who is immediately available. Taylor H.

I was impressed by Michele’s personalized and localized approach. I appreciate that she meets with each and every one of her clients. Kate D., Phd

I want to find someone to share my life with and appreciate the hands on, personal approach. Julie C.

Because it feels very personalized and isn’t a sales pitch to take your money. Nicole B.

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ADVICE FROM A DENVER MATCHMAKER

Here is some good advice to keep in mind when someone is interested in you that you are not interested in. Whether it be dating apps, internet dating sites, Denver matchmaking services or Denver matchmakers this advice is useful.

Be honest, kind and direct. Be a grown up. Do not play with someone when they are trying to date you and you are not interested. Tell them you are not interested in that way although you are flattered. There just is not a romantic chemistry.

That happened to me a fair number of times during my dating experiences and in several of the cases they didn’t want to take no for an answer. Sadly, if that’s the case things can become uncomfortable and contentious. But if they do then you’ve made the right decision. That person needs to respect your feelings when you are being honest with them. It’s the right thing to do.

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What sets you apart from other Denver matchmaking services?

From Shoutout Colorado Magazine:

When people call to discuss and consider using Bon Jour after reading through my website, the three things they say that resonated with them were that I am authentic, informative and direct. There is no fluff, no packages with various pricing, there is a one-time investment fee that is good for whatever length of time it takes the person to achieve their goal. It is the same for each client and is based on what I feel I can do for that client. For example, if a person has some challenges, things that may not be as popular with as many people i.e., location, number of marriages, height, age, pets, children, etc. that may lower someone’s fee which is the total opposite of what people generally think would happen. Fairness in pricing, the amount of information shared with each and every client, the hands-on coaching and sharing of peoples’ feedback about one another are elements of Bon Jour Matchmaking Service that have made me so successful over 32 years.

People ask how successful I am…this is a partnership, a collaboration between Matchmaker and client. We share in the success of each match. I do everything I can do to make it succeed, but ultimately it is up to each partner to put forth the effort for a long term relationship. You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink…I can counsel, share and suggest but I can’t “make” people follow those suggestions. The ones who have were able to reach their ultimate goal!