I have so many singles call me who have tried many dating apps and express frustration and more. Years ago, I tried the online dating sites myself and found they left something to be desired. So, I thought I would go on an app now and see exactly what these singles are talking about. OMG!!! …
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The way people treat each other on Internet dating sites and dating apps is not acceptable in Bon Jour Matchmaking! Clients are investing in potential matches who show them respect in all ways. If a client is not interested in someone they meet, they can’t just ghost them. You have to be a grown up …
I have 2 male clients who turn down everyone who selects to meet them by saying they aren’t good looking enough. I know that one of them is comparing everyone against his ex-wife (who cheated on him and left him). I always say, this is a matchmaking service, not a modeling agency. I recently presented …
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As mentioned previously on this website, I have a Behavioral Agreement for every client. The purpose is to optimize your success for a potential relationship. My clients are great for the most part at adhering to the Agreement. However, over the 34 years I have had some who were so busy they ruined any chance …
Rather than feeling like people perceive you as desperate or a loser, you should really feel that because you are so special and have so much going for you that you’ve chosen to have the exclusive representation of a professional matchmaker! Working with a Denver matchmaker is not something you should feel embarrassed about. Do …
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There are services, one in particular, that are branching off in many directions basically to make more money. These services cannot possibly be focusing on matchmaking their singles when they are branching out into other business ventures. Also, singles, don’t confuse Denver matchmaking services with Denver dating services. There is a definite difference between the …
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When you read reviews of other Denver matchmaking services, they often state that they contacted the service multiple times after joining with no response. You will NEVER see that kind of review about Bon Jour Matchmaking Service or me! Conversely, I expect all of my clients to respond in a timely manner in that I …
It has always been natural for me to evaluate singles, even guys I dated, and think who the best match for them would be. It wasn’t always me. In 1989 I heard of a service called Great Expectations. As a single myself, I reviewed their structure and felt it was impersonal and overpriced. Not a …
Bon Jour Matchmaking Service is a REAL matchmaking service, not a dating service calling itself a “matchmaking” service. You probably can tell that from the rest of this site and immense amount of information contained in it. I have 2 contracts that every client signs. One is your contract stipulating your fee, what you should …
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So, first thing this morning, this chiropractor calls me from Santa Fe, NM lamenting that the dating situation there is lousy. Although it was obvious by his message that he hadn’t even gone to my website, I do like to try to help people so they avoid getting scammed and taken advantage of. I called …
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