Rather than feeling like people perceive you as desperate or a loser, you should really feel that because you are so special and have so much going for you that you’ve chosen to have the exclusive representation of a professional matchmaker! Working with a Denver matchmaker is not something you should feel embarrassed about. Do …
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Something that my clients often thank me for which is not necessarily something I write a lot about is the quality of clients in Bon Jour. I so often have to decline working with people who I perceive from our conversation and/or interaction are not invested enough, communicative and/or reliable. Because many of my clients …
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Almost every single, both male and female, regardless of age has tried Match.com, eHarmony and It’s Just Lunch before calling me. Another smaller percentage has tried POF (Plenty of Fish). You can guess the results if they are calling me. A small percentage have been afraid to try Internet Dating Sites for a variety of …
Don’t worry, if you are spending Valentine’s Day without love make up your mind this is the last one. It’s time for you to get serious about finding the love of your life. If you’ve played around on the Internet Dating Sites, tried dinner services or just lunch, had friends set you up with the …
CALL ME…This is NOT a “sales” call, merely an exchange of information. When I was searching for my home there were very specific things I wanted and specifically did not want. The home had to have air conditioning and a foyer. I absolutely did not want a basement. Well, the home I fell in love …
If you find a professional matchmaker who is doing her job well, she will not play a numbers game. A numbers game is for the Internet dating sites and Denver dating services who sell packages of dates. A matchmaker considers both sides of the match carefully to be sure they fit based on the information …
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People always ask me what types of services to steer clear of…the concise answer is NEW Denver matchmaking services. Particularly new services charging high price tags who really have no clients yet, no background in this business or anything remotely connected with it, i.e., “I’m single and like setting up my friends” or “happily married …
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(Click on the blue print to go to Post) I attended a Christmas party where there was a bevy of successful and attractive women over 55. There are lots of interesting, attractive, fit and energetic women over 55 and it seemed many of them were there. No, this was not a singles party, it was …
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CALL ME…This is NOT a “sales” call, merely an exchange of information. The following couples are not clients of Bon Jour, but friends of mine who have been married at least 30 years… Both male and female clients hire Bon Jour Matchmaking to find them fairly “perfect people”. Minimum wrinkles, not too short, not fat, …
As mentioned in previous posts I have a Behavioral Agreement that each client signs at the time of their interview. The reason for this is two-fold. The first reason for this Agreement is that clients are viewing or hearing a 6 page profile and viewing pictures. If they get excited about meeting someone that excitement …
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