Haven’t you always wished you could go back and ask people you’ve dated why they stopped seeing you? Have you sat by the phone, not literally but mentally, waiting for a call that never came? Haven’t you ever gone on a first date and had a great time, great chemistry and lots of interest and …
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THIS IS THE REASON FOR AN OPEN-ENDED CONTRACT WITH A DENVER MATCHMAKER
A gentleman joined Bon Jour Matchmaking a year ago in August. He selectively met a couple of women who appealed to him. Then for several months he met a woman he dated for a while. A few months ago a new woman joined Bon Jour who also met a couple of men. Much of her …
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ARE DENVER MATCHMAKERS DOING THEIR JOB?
I guess the answer depends on your definition of a “Matchmaker”. It also depends on your agenda when using Denver matchmaking services. According to World English Dictionary it’s a limited definition (in my opinion)… World English Dictionary matchmaker 1 (ˈmætʃˌmeɪkə) — n 1. a person who brings together suitable partners for marriage It seems currently …
Denver Franchise Matchmaking Service Just Doesn’t Want to Work for Their Clients
Upon the first phone call from my newest client, during the course of discussing which other matchmaking services she has used, she shared the following information (I’m not going to tell you which service because if you call them you will recognize them immediately): First they quoted six dates in six months for $3500. When …
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TIPS FOR SELECTING A GOOD MATCHMAKER
The Good Matchmaker We tend to measure a successful matchmaker by the number of marriages that result. However, there are many matchmakers who are held in high esteem by their clients, even though their marriage ratio isn’t that high. They’re the matchmakers who really listen to their clients, make suggestions that are close to what …
THIS IS WHAT AN UNPROFESSIONAL MATCHMAKER LOOKS LIKE…
UPDATE: It is now 2022 and over these several years since this incident, several other “matchmakers” around the country have contacted me in a similar way. They don’t know me, my service or my clients NOR DO THEY ASK ANYTHING ABOUT ANY OF THOSE! Yet they are more than willing to ask me to pimp …
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THIS DENVER MATCHMAKER IS MORE THE TORTOISE THAN THE HARE
As you read through this website you will realize that Bon Jour Matchmaking Service has the philosophy of the tortoise by having an open-ended contract giving every client enough time for their best match to come in. Not setting clients up just to set them up by ignoring their specifications and does not sell packages …
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LET ME HELP YOU CORRECT INEFFECTIVE DATING PATTERNS
I’ve received feedback about my Blog that people love my anecdotal stories as they help clarify my points. So to illuminate this point…I have found with some of my clients that they have a regular routine of some kind that they don’t change when they come in here and meet potential mates. Whether it be …
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REMEMBERING RICK BARBER…MY BEST FRIEND…HAPPY BIRTHDAY
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY DARLING FRIEND Missing you every day Ricky. I can’t believe it’s been 6 years! The world is not the same without you…
WHAT IS SPEED DATING?
It is a singles’ night with a bunch of unvetted singles looking for love by going to a bar and spending upwards of $60 to spend 5-7 minutes looking a person over. Hey, I remember doing that in my twenties and thirties for FREE with the additional privilege of spending more than 5-7 minutes. Perhaps …
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