My coaching is based on a few factors. One is my own extensive dating experience and what I’ve learned from that. Another is my clients’ dating experiences which further educates me and finally the direct feedback I receive from your match(es). Some people have a perception of themselves a certain way and that’s how they …
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The way people treat each other on Internet dating sites and dating apps is not acceptable in Bon Jour Matchmaking! Clients are investing in potential matches who show them respect in all ways. If a client is not interested in someone they meet, they can’t just ghost them. You have to be a grown up …
Published in Venus In Heels, January 6, 2011 My big problem with Patti’s system of matchmaking has to do with her inability to spot true magnetism between two people that’s deeper than just hormone-based attraction. Instead she’s bound by rules that only apply to the superficial set, who aren’t in search of a long-term partner …
Because these terms are used interchangeably, most people don’t realize there is a significant difference between dating and matchmaking services. The most obvious is…if the name says “dating” then it IS a dating service. What that means is they sell you a package of DATES at an exorbitant fee for a limited period of time. …
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For women in the dating world. You will never convince a man to love you. Find a man who answers when you call and texts back within minutes rather than days. Find a man that gives you clear cut answers and doesn’t leave you wondering where you stand. Find a man that wants to make …
Hiring a matchmaking service is a lot like hiring a financial adviser to direct you in the stock market. You invest your money hoping for a large return; you have patience because the market can go up and down and you are basically making an educated decision about this form of investment. Likewise in a matchmaking …
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Born and raised in Wilmington, Delaware I moved to Denver in 1981. I had never been here, did not know anyone here and did not have a job. Just showed up bright eyed and bushy tailed…like any 25 year old. From 25 to 33 I had a variety of jobs but primarily was a legal …
I’ve received feedback about my Blog that people love my anecdotal stories as they help clarify my points. So, to illuminate this point…I have found with some of my clients that they have a regular routine of some kind that they don’t change when they come in here and meet potential mates. Whether it be …
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A while ago I was in contact with a guy I dated in my twenties. He’s now in his sixties. One of the things that got on my nerves when we dated was that he worked out obsessively every day, 7 days a week and anything else was put on the back burner. Well, it …
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I received a call from a 62 year old doctor who is interested in dating women in their thirties and having children. He has never been married or had children. So now, at the age of 62 that’s his agenda. My women are ONLY interested in meeting men who are age appropriate, especially to have …
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