When Choosing a Matchmaking Service Consider: 1. Why haven’t I ever used a local dating/matchmaking service? 2. What has turned me off about Denver matchmaking services that I’ve either investigated or joined? 3. What does Bon Jour Matchmaking do differently? 4. What is my goal in using a personal matchmaker? 5. What is the difference between Internet …
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ASK THESE QUESTIONS BEFORE JOINING ANY DENVER MATCHMAKING SERVICE
Every week I receive calls from singles who have used or spoken to other local Denver matchmaking services. What shocks me every time is the few questions these people ask the other services. Maybe because I conduct at least a 1 hour preliminary phone consultation they think of more questions to ask me…I don’t know. …
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MATCHMAKING, COACHING, LISTENING AND LEARNING AT THIS DENVER SERVICE
Hiring a matchmaking service is a lot like hiring a financial adviser to direct you in the stock market. You invest your money hoping for a large return; you have patience because the market can go up and down and you are basically making an educated decision about this form of investment. Likewise in a matchmaking …
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ASK THESE QUESTIONS BEFORE JOINING ANY DENVER MATCHMAKING SERVICE
Every week I receive calls from singles who have used or spoken to other local Denver matchmaking services. What shocks me every time is the few questions these people ask the other services. Maybe because I conduct at least a 1 hour preliminary phone consultation they think of more questions to ask me…I don’t know. …
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How To Judge Whether a Matchmaking Service Is Right For You
If my friend has used a dating service and it has either been very successful for them or unsuccessful for them, is that a good way to judge the service? Will I likely have the same outcome? A big mistake that many people make is to judge a service by their friend’s success or lack …
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HOW TO BE A REALISTIC DENVER MATCHMAKING CLIENT
When hiring a Matchmaker you share the responsibility with the Matchmaker to work together, put your best foot forward, have an amicable relationship with that Matchmaker and be realistic in your expectations. If you join a matchmaking service it is their responsibility to show your profile to the most appropriate candidates. Not to waste your …
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Is there something that you feel is most responsible for your success as a Denver matchmaker?
From Shoutout Colorado Magazine: I have stayed true to the structure of Bon Jour Matchmaking, Colorado’s oldest matchmaking service, for 32 years regardless of the internet, apps and local competition. I have limited overhead, I do not advertise and never have, I personally, face-to-face interview each and every client. I have current photos of each …
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN DENVER MATCHMAKING & DATING SERVICES
A matchmaker has met with (in-person) and interviewed ALL of her/his clients. She/he has an extensive profile on each client for prospects to view, along with several current pictures. In a matchmaking service the client and matchmaker work together collaboratively to select the most appropriate match. Both clients should be able to talk prior to …
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IT USED TO BE ONLY MEN, BUT NOW IT’S WOMEN TOO
First of all, remember I’ve been matchmaking for 34 years so I have a lot of history to draw from. When I share info about singles who call me and either become clients or not, I am referring strictly to MY clientele NOT the whole world. Over these many years I have gotten calls from …
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YOU KNOW YOU’VE BEEN SUCCESSFUL AT MATCHMAKING WHEN…
As one of the original professional matchmakers since 1989 the best testimonies to my success are imitators. On a daily basis I find people from all over the world studying my website for tips as to how to structure and operate a successful matchmaking service. One of the more blatant examples in the United States …
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