Is this one of those holidays (Valentine’s Day) that singles hate? Do all of the commercials of couples make you cringe and create anxiety? Have you tried the Internet dating sites and gotten totally overwhelmed and disillusioned? And/or have you tried some Denver dating services that throw parties, have dinners, discussion groups or activities but …
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IS BON JOUR MATCHMAKING SERVICE RIGHT FOR YOU?
In an effort to assist you in deciding whether Bon Jour Matchmaking is the service for you, I’ve compiled a list of criteria that does not fit for Bon Jour clients. Should one or more of these describe you or your thought process I wish you good luck and suggest you phone another Denver matchmaking …
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MATCHMAKING, COACHING, LISTENING AND LEARNING AT THIS DENVER SERVICE
Hiring a matchmaking service is a lot like hiring a financial adviser to direct you in the stock market. You invest your money hoping for a large return; you have patience because the market can go up and down and you are basically making an educated decision about this form of investment. Likewise in a …
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IN BON JOUR MATCHMAKING WE ARE PARTNERS
When you first contact me to ask questions about my service that is when we both start evaluating whether my structure, philosophy and personality fit for you and I assess whether you truly understand my philosophy, whether you are realistic, your dating attitude and whether we communicate well enough to work together. To make this …
BON JOUR MATCHMAKING SERVICE IS STILL A COLLABORATION AFTER 33 YEARS!
Shortly moving into my 33rd year as a Denver Matchmaker it becomes more and more clear that this service is not a dictatorship, but a mutual collaboration between client and Matchmaker. Looking back over these years I realize that is exactly why it has been so successful. The initial interview is a give and take …
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I ALWAYS DATE WOMEN 20 YEARS YOUNGER
Periodically I receive calls from men in their late fifties or early sixties who proclaim that they always date women 20 years younger and it’s never been a problem. If it’s never been a problem why are you calling a Matchmaker? As I’ve shared throughout this website I interview every client so I know the …
HOW DO DENVER MATCHMAKING SERVICES DECIDE YOUR FEE?
(Click on the link to go to post) After being a professional Denver Matchmaker for 33+ years I’ve been privy to how most Denver matchmaking services come up with your fee. First, most of them have a tier fee structure. So the more services you want from them the more they charge. If you stay …
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DO YOU WANT TO DATE OR A MATE?
It’s Your Choice… When deciding to use a matchmaking service one of the most important considerations is are you looking to “date” or to “mate”. You should feel that your investment is in your future, starting a brand new life with someone who you have chosen who has chosen you. If you are truly serious …
DIRECT AND HONEST or CHARISMATIC AND UNTRUSTWORTHY
Which Do You Prefer? Are you the type of person who falls for charm and charisma and lives to regret it? Those charismatic charmers are often called scammers. I have a relative who is very, very charismatic, however once he’s “got” you he’s like a snake and will bite you the minute you are off …
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Marry the First or Second Match?
What does that mean? Throughout the 33 year history of Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, the majority of the 300+ couples who married sealed the deal with either their first or second introduction. NO that doesn’t mean you HAVE to marry the first or second person you meet. My goal is to be so discriminating in …
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