Author Archives: Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
When you read reviews of other Denver matchmaking services, they often state that they contacted the service multiple times after joining with no response. You will NEVER see that kind of review about Bon Jour Matchmaking Service or me! Conversely, I expect all of my clients to respond…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
I am often contacted by people calling themselves matchmakers, usually from outside of Colorado, wanting me to set up THEIR clients with my clients.  I don’t know their clients, haven’t met or interviewed their client, don’t know the quality of their clients and don’t know them or their…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
Open-ended contract…you are a client until…until you reach your goal; One Matchmaker who knows ALL of her clients; You are ONLY introduced to my clients who I’ve met personally, interviewed and who have had a background check; 33 years of experience in Colorado matchmaking; 300+ marriages; Feedback both…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
I am hearing from Denver singles on a regular basis how disappointed they are in the local matchmaking services they’ve chosen.  It is always the same reasons…too expensive, no information or photos of prospective matches, matches who are not even close to the criteria set forth initially/ongoing and…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
Keep these tips in mind as you navigate the dating landscape: Regarding Attraction: Women use all of their senses when falling in love.  According to researchers, men process their attraction with the right side of their brains, which is visually stimulated (surprise).  While women use their whole brain…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
I start evaluating everything about you from your first contact with me.  If written I notice grammar, spelling, and politeness.  If by phone, attitude, philosophy (i.e., it’s a numbers, game how many clients do you have?), and our communication styles with each other.  This is such a personal…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
CONGRATULATIONS to Leslie and Tom on their recent marriage.  In the case of this couple each one selected several potential prospects, however they had each other high on their lists.  Consequently after their first choices didn’t click they were each other’s second choice. After a year of dating…

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To quote the brilliant Albert Einstein, “The definition of INSANITY is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.”  This was requoted to me by a new client prior to his interview as the reason he decided to stop using Internet dating sites and work…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
Although I’ve alluded to it in several posts I thought I would just directly explain what Bon Jour Matchmaking both provides to all clients and what is expected in return.  It’s not that I’m a control freak, it’s that I know all of my clients personally and individually…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
I recently had a new female client, age 26, also a small business owner join my service.  She was outgoing, very adorable, sent in all information asked for prior to the initial interview and seemed like a great new client.  I was wondering why she is single…mystery solved!…