People constantly ask me whether matchmaking is lucrative and how much money I make. They seem to want to judge this vocation by monetary success rather than what the basis of my chosen vocation is which is how many people working with me have reached their life goal of finding a mate. The reason I …
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“Michele, You’re Not Much of a Salesman”, said a Caller to Bon Jour Matchmaking Service
A few weeks ago a gentleman called asking about my matchmaking services. As I always do I first asked whether he had any questions from the website that he’d read, then I asked whether he had used any local services prior to this. He went on and on about a certain local matchmaking service and …
IT’S 2023…WHY IS BON JOUR MATCHMAKING SERVICE STILL “OLD-FASHIONED”?
Over these many years since the creation of Bon Jour Matchmaking Service established in 1989 many well-meaning people have suggested that I go more high-tech. The reason I have resisted is because I genuinely feel that there are some endeavors that are and should stay “old-fashioned”. Of course I have incorporated aspects of current high-tech …
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Marry the First or Second Match?
What does that mean? Throughout the 36+ year history of Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, the majority of the 300+ couples who married sealed the deal with either their first or second introduction. NO that doesn’t mean you HAVE to marry the first or second person you meet. My goal is to be so discriminating in …
VETERAN MATCHMAKER WARNS OF REVIEWS OF MATCHMAKING OR DATING SERVICES
How to Interpret Negative Yelp Reviews of Businesses Owning a matchmaking service is a slippery slope…you are managing people’s hopes and dreams as well as egos and expectations. Many people who join a service have higher criteria for the people they meet in the service than they would in the “real” world. So they may …
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EVER WONDERED WHY YOU WERE DUMPED?
Who hasn’t wondered what happened when a relationship with so much potential ended. Why someone didn’t call you back after a first date. I know the answers right from my clients’ mouths. If you view some of the Posts on POSTS TO READ BEFORE JOINING ANY DENVER MATCHMAKING SERVICE you will see some that will …
DENVER MATCHMAKER LOVES HER CLIENTS
The Cream of the Crop When I established Bon Jour Matchmaking Service in 1989 I did not have any particular group of singles in mind to target. I grew strictly through referrals and was fortunate enough to attract educated, successful, healthy and fit clients. When receiving a call from a prospect now I have to …
DENVER MATCHMAKER DATING SURVEY SAYS…
According to a 2013 Questionnaire, Denver Singles Responded Like This… Would you date or not date someone based on their job? Generally singles said it depends on the job and how much time it would allow for the relationship. Mostly they want to meet someone who has passion for their career. Is it polite to …
ROMANCE INSPIRING COLORADO WINTER ESCAPES
If you want to bring a new relationship closer this winter, consider any of the suggestions below with a new romance or a long-term companion. Invite someone you wish you had a relationship with and see if these inspiring settings help cultivate that union. As a Matchmaker I can tell you that creating new adventures …
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DATING DURING THE HOLIDAYS
If through the year you’ve had your eye on someone you have an interest in but they are involved, the holidays are usually the “make it or break it” time when they either break up or go to the next level. At least that is the general rule…so hang in there, I know several men …
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