I have a new client who called me the other day and wanted to know why a “matchmaking service” from Arizona was calling to set her up with one of their clients who lives in Denver. She said she didn’t know the service, hadn’t spoken with them prior and wondered how they found her. Beats …
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Hiring a matchmaking service is a lot like hiring a financial adviser to direct you in the stock market. You invest your money hoping for a large return; you have patience because the market can go up and down and you are basically making an educated decision about this form of investment. Likewise in a matchmaking …
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Bon Jour is the only service that connects people who really want a relationship. Sloan D. I had confidence in the level of detail on the website. Michele Fields is no nonsense and direct and she has a serious and sincere clientele. Matt E. Open ended contract, fair investment, lots of information. Justin B. After speaking with Michele …
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People constantly ask me whether matchmaking is lucrative and how much money I make. They seem to want to judge this vocation by monetary success rather than what the basis of my chosen vocation is which is how many people working with me have reached their life goal of finding a mate. The reason I …
The initial interview is the time when we get to know each other both through the questions on the questionnaire as well as the information in-between the questions that we share. This is when we form the basis of our relationship and get started on your journey to meet like-minded professional singles. Based on the …
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Over the 33 years I’ve been matchmaking, one of my best attributes now is the ability to listen carefully. To follow my clients’ preferences and criteria and most importantly not to make decisions FOR them but rather WITH them. Those qualities only come with years of experience in the business of professional matchmaking. Over all …
Very often when people contact me at Bon Jour Matchmaking one of the questions they ask is what is my success rate. My success rate has everything to do with you as a client. If you turn down everyone who would like to meet you, don’t select people to meet who are the best prospects (which …
Which Do You Prefer? Are you the type of person who falls for charm and charisma and lives to regret it? Those charismatic charmers are often called scammers. I have a relative who is very, very charismatic, however once he’s “got” you he’s like a snake and will bite you the minute you are off …
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Every week I receive calls from singles who have used or spoken to other local Denver matchmaking services. What shocks me every time is the few questions these people ask the other services. Maybe because I conduct at least a 1 hour preliminary phone consultation they think of more questions to ask me…I don’t know. …
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After you have read through this site somewhat you should understand that I am a singular matchmaker who has met and interviewed every client face to face. I work alone with each client, there are no others in this service working with clients. How could I possibly matchmake if I hadn’t met and interviewed every …
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