DENVER SINGLES DON’T PLAY GAMES

Michele the Matchmaker Says…Don’t Play Games When Dating

 

One of the most often heard complaints from women is that they met a new guy, had a great connection and the guy either didn’t call at all or waited a week or more to call.  FYI guys, if you meet a woman and really had a great connection, don’t play games!  Women love it when a guy they are interested in calls ASAP.  Don’t play the “I don’t want her to think I’m too interested” game.  A woman will wait up to 72 hours but then start getting upset, agitated, annoyed, pissed off and write you off.  If you are interested in a woman call her right away.

Now women…the complaint I hear most often about you is you are too busy to fit the guy in.  Guys say they have to call some women over and over to find one free moment to get together.  Ladies, let me tell you, if a guy does that once or twice he will move on.  You have to carve out time for a man you are interested in or he’ll go elsewhere.  It’s great for women to keep themselves busy when they are not dating anyone, but if you use any type of dating venue, either Internet or local, you MUST make the time to cultivate a relationship.

Another concern voiced by men of women is that they have so many pets the guy wonders how they can ever go away together.  So if you are a dedicated pet owner with multiple pets, be sure you let a prospective suitor know how the pets will be cared for when you vacation, otherwise he will assume it’s too hard for you to get away and may pursue someone easier to woo.

For more dating advice CALL Michele the Matchmaker at 303-756-8106

What’s the Difference Between BON JOUR and Other Denver Matchmaking Services?

Following is a list of reasons why Bon Jour Matchmaking Service stands out in the Denver dating marketplace:

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1.     Matchmaker Michele’s goal is that you marry the first or second person you meet;

2.     Matchmaker Michele, the owner and operator, has interviewed and knows ALL of her clients;

3.     Bon Jour provides an open-ended contract to ALL clients at no extra fee;

4.     The filing fee is based upon the specific information from each client, there is no flat fee;

5.     Clients view profiles with current photos (headshots and full length shots);

6.     Clients decide, with the assistance of Michele, who they would like to meet;

7.     Fees are the lowest of all matchmaking services or dating services in the Denver marketplace;

8.     Michele matches ALL of the clients, there are no other employees doing the matching (there are no other employees);

9.     Bon Jour Matchmaking Service is open 7 days a week and all holidays;

10.    Michele returns e-mails and phone calls within 5 hours generally;

11.     There is only ONE simple FEE rather than a bunch of confusing prices and plans to select from as in other services;

12.     There have been 314 marriages created from Bon Jour Matchmaking Service since 1989;

13.    626 Front Range singles have married through Bon Jour;

14.     Bon Jour Matchmaking Service has been in business for 26 years;  and last but not least…

15.     Most of the clients who married, married the first or second person they met through Michele!

If this list appeals to you and you have been afraid to try a service or been disappointed in service(s) you’ve tried, phone Michele at 303-756-8106 NOW…

DICTIONARY FOR INTERNET DATING SERVICES

TRANSLATIONS FOR INTERNET DATING SERVICE LINGO

DICTIONARY FOR WOMEN’S PERSONAL ADS TERMINOLOGY
40-ish = 49
Adventurous = Slept with everyone
Athletic = Small breasts
Average looking = Ugly
Beautiful = Pathological liar
Contagious Smile = Does a lot of pills
Emotionally secure = On medication
Feminist = Fat
Free spirit = Junkie  (men and women)
Friendship first = Former very “friendly” person
Fun = Annoying  (men and women)
New Age = Body hair in the wrong places
Open-minded = Desperate
Outgoing = Loud and Embarrassing  (men and women)
Passionate = Sloppy drunk  (men and women)
Voluptuous = Very Fat
Large frame = Hugely Fat  (men and women)
Wants soulmate = Stalker

DICTIONARY FOR MEN’S PERSONAL ADS TERMINOLOGY
I am hungry = I am hungry
I am sleepy = I am sleepy
I am tired = I am tired
Nice dress = Nice cleavage!
I love you = let’s have sex now
I am bored = Do you want to have sex?
May I have this dance? = I’d like to have sex with you
Can I call you sometime? = I’d like to have sex with you
Do you want to go to a movie? = I’d like to have sex with you

Can I take you out to dinner? = I’d like to have sex with you
Those shoes don’t go with that outfit = I’m gay

Someone sent me these and I thought I would share them and give you a giggle.

Michele the Matchmaker

MICHELE “THE MATCHMAKER” FIELDS…Denver’s Heart Hunter

Denver Singles Hire a Heart Hunter

The Heart Hunter is a new category of professional advisor who works with upper echelon professionals in the same way a Head Hunter finds them a perfect career match.

Today’s professional Denver singles hire head hunters to assist them in finding the perfect position in a company to fit their educational background.  Likewise they have also chosen to hire a Heart Hunter to assist them in finding the perfect mate for life.  Bon Jour Matchmaking Service owned by Michele Fields provides an environment for local professionals to work closely with this experienced Matchmaker to find a mate who fits their moral and ethical values as well as background.

Matchmaking since 1989 Michele Fields has earned the title Heart Hunter.   Her credentials are clear having matched 313 couples (which equates to 626 singles) for marriage since 1989.  The most impressive statistic is, however, that every couple married either the first or second person they met through Michele.  Of course that’s not an absolute…but most times the collaboration is just that successful!

This Heart Hunter collaborates with each Client and carefully selects prospects who fit physically, common interests, morally, ethically and educationally based on preferences she gleans during a two-hour interview.  The Client selects who they would like to meet based on Michele’s input, current photos and an in-depth questionnaire shared with them, making this a totally collaborative effort between Matchmaker and Client.

Michele “the Matchmaker” Fields is the perfect definition of a Heart Hunter.  In addition to matching she helps them hone their “resumes” or profiles and advises them with image consulting and dating coaching so that when she does make a match they put their best foot forward to have a successful introduction.

DENVER MATCHMAKER GIVES SINGLE MEN SOME ADVICE

THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND WHEN DATING DENVER WOMEN

The first phone call:  Do not talk about your ex; Do not talk about sex; Do not just talk on and on about yourself (ask HER questions).

 If you are not interested after talking by phone just say: “I don’t think we have enough chemistry to pursue this but it was really nice chatting with you and I wish you the best of luck.”

 The Meeting:  Look like you care about what she thinks; Wear something that is ironed; DO wear deodorant and/or cologne; Look like you put effort into your appearance for her regardless of where you are meeting.

 If you are not interested when you meet DO NOT pretend you are.  Tell her the same as above.

 If she does not look like her photos, lied about age or weight TELL her and don’t waste anymore of your evening on someone who misrepresented herself.  That shows a real lack of respect for you and your time.

 DO NOT meet during the workday!  People will have on less than flattering attire than they would wear during their off time.  They will have their mind on business and getting back to work on time.  If you want to meet for a short time suggest coffee.  DO NOT spend a lot of money on the first meeting but do offer to pay for her beverage.

 Again, don’t just talk about yourself.  Be sure to ask her questions.

 Confirm the meeting THAT morning and make sure you both know the time and place.  Be on time!  Take her number with you in case there is a mix up so that you can call her.

 If you have children do not talk about your opinion on how children should be raised.  Talk only in general terms. 

 If you are going to place an ad in the personals on Craig’s List or an Internet dating service,  post a CURRENT PHOTO of yourself.  NOT flowers, scenery, animals, motorcycles, etc.  Just like you women want to see who you are and see if there is an attraction.  They are no different than men in that way.  If you don’t show yourself you won’t get as much of a response.  Would you respond to a woman’s ad with no photo of her?

 When you get frustrated using Internet dating services consider using a personalized Denver Matchmaker who has been matching for 26 years with a success rate of 314 marriages.  Call Michele the Matchmaker at 303-756-8106.

 

 

 

 

DENVER MATCHMAKER MICHELE ANSWERS 3 BURNING DATING QUESTIONS

Starting at the beginning, the answers to these three questions will start your date out on the right foot.

1.     How long should a first date last?  I always suggest to my clients to meet for coffee with an option.  An option that if things are going really well they can continue the date with lunch or dinner depending on what time the meeting is.  That seems to work very well.  I think the absolute WORST time to meet is at lunch during the work week.

2.     How should you dress for a first date?  That depends on several factors.  What are you doing on that first date?  If you are meeting for coffee, casual but clean, neat and put together.  Wear something flattering as first impressions stick.  On subsequent dates “know your audience”, meaning be yourself and wear what’s comfortable for you keeping in mind the type of person you are going out with.  If you are flamboyant and your date is conservative, just tone it down a bit with them in mind.  Or vice versa.  Always dress with the activity and venue in mind.

3.     How much should you drink on a date?  Men appear obnoxious when they are drunk but women really look bad when they get drunk.  I think less is best.  One or two drinks is quite enough.  If you are drinking because you’re nervous, just work through it.  Even just holding and sipping a glass of water will help calm you down.

Submit any other questions you may have below and I will answer them in another blog.

TOGETHER INNOCENT SOULS TAKE FLIGHT

The Innocent Victims of the Aurora Theatre Shooting Left

This World Together

On a hot summer night 12 innocent souls took flight.

Shaken by the reality that they were spirits they clung together in the theatre looking down at the carnage.

Helping each other make the journey from this life to the next

These souls of all ages left with the knowledge that although their time had come way too early

They could help one another and give us the peace of mind that they are not alone to face their hereafter.

Their physical pain has ended but they sense the world’s pain at this massacre and are helpless to ease our sorrow.

They are still and always will be around their loved ones in spirit, memories and intangible love that surpasses physicality.

All the prayers, thoughts and sadness coming from this dimension are sensed by them and they will stay with us to help us cope.

Innocent and good people with their lives ahead of them never deserved such a tragic end and we all pray they are at peace…unlike us.

MICHELE THE MATCHMAKER WANTS SINGLE DENVER MEN 44-50 NOW!

Single, Available Men 44-50 In Denver Call Michele at

303-756-8106 NOW

Bon Jour Matchmaking Service is offering a major special for FIVE single Denver men who fit the following:

1.     Single;

2.     Professional;

3.     5’10” and above;

4.     Healthy/fit;

5.     Well educated or at least successful in their career;

6.     Wants either marriage or a long term commited relationship

Bon Jour is representing women ages 36 and up who are looking for men like the ones described above.  This is a SHORT TERM offer in that once I have 5 men in this category the major Special ends.  These women also fit the above description (except mostly under 5’10”) and are waiting to meet you.

Don’t wait too long or the 5 openings will fill quickly!  If you are dating in Denver and have not found the “one” call me at 303-756-8106.

A GIFT OF LOVE FOR DENVER SINGLES

A Denver Matchmaker is a Unique Gift

Do you have a friend, relative, co-worker or even ex who has been looking for love in all the wrong places?  If so, consider a gift certificate for that single to jump start them working with a professional matchmaker.  I bet that is the first and only gift of that kind they’ll ever receive!

A gift certificate in any amount to start off a journey of exploration in the Denver singles community is a thoughtful way to let someone you care about know you support them and want the best for them.

Contact Michele the Matchmaker at Bon Jour Matchmaking Service from this site or phone her at 303-756-8106 to order a gift certificate for any occasion or no special event.

ORDER YOUR PERSONALIZED DATING POETRY NOW 303-756-8106

Tell Me The Details and I’ll Make Them Rhyme

Poetry for any occasion…particularly unusual situations where you cannot find a store-bought card.  A poem with your specific information about the relationship beginning, ending or in-between.  Is there something you want to say but you are too shy or can’t find the words?  Tell me and I’ll find the words for you.  They say a picture is worth a thousand words but a poem is invaluable and forever.  Click on Personalized Poetry for examples.

I will even frame the poem for you for an extra small fee.  Take a few moments to view the Personalized Poetry section of this website for examples of poems for various occasions.

Especially in this economy, the gift of a poem is inexpensive monetarily but invaluable and cherished!