Let’s start with the men: Men are very visual and want a woman who is fit and healthy, has an interesting style and he will be proud to introduce to friends, family and co-workers. Do you have any idea how hard it is to find men in Denver who dress well???? They are few and …
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Shortly moving into my 33rd year as a Denver Matchmaker it becomes more and more clear that this service is not a dictatorship, but a mutual collaboration between client and Matchmaker. Looking back over these years I realize that is exactly why it has been so successful. The initial interview is a give and take …
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(Click on the link to go to post) After being a professional Denver Matchmaker for 33+ years I’ve been privy to how most Denver matchmaking services come up with your fee. First, most of them have a tier fee structure. So the more services you want from them the more they charge. If you stay …
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In short, it’s ME! Since 1989 I’ve been handwriting answers to the 6-page questionnaire/profile for each client while we interview for 2 hours face-to-face in my private office. The information that is viewed by new clients consists of this questionnaire/profile along with current photos both head shots and full-length shots of each prospect. I hand …
Do you want the truth? I’ll tell you the truth. How else can you correct mistakes, fix misconceptions and get the inside scoop unless you work with a well established Denver Matchmaker? For 34 years I have been facilitating matches in collaboration with my clients and have stepped in when necessary to bridge gaps in …
Give The Gift That Keeps On Giving… (click on the pink print below to go to posts) If you are the “concerned” parent of a “child” in the above age range who has not yet found their match and would like them to work with a Professional Matchmaker get them started with a Gift Certificate. …
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The Cream of the Crop When I established Bon Jour Matchmaking Service in 1989 I did not have any particular group of singles in mind to target. I grew strictly through referrals and was fortunate enough to attract educated, successful, healthy and fit clients. When receiving a call from a prospect now I have to …
According to a 2013 Questionnaire, Denver Singles Responded Like This… Would you date or not date someone based on their job? Generally singles said it depends on the job and how much time it would allow for the relationship. Mostly they want to meet someone who has passion for their career. Is it polite to …
MICHELE FIELDS…24 YEARS OF MATCHMAKING EXPERIENCE Bon Jour Matchmaking Service started and continues to be a hands-on, old-fashioned, collaborative matchmaking service just as it was at its inception almost 24 years ago. There are many businesses that should and can become automated and Internet-based, but matchmaking, in my opinion, is not one of them. Of course …
THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND WHEN DATING DENVER WOMEN The first phone call: Do not talk about your ex; Do not talk about sex; Do not just talk on and on about yourself (ask HER questions). If you are not interested after talking by phone just say: “I don’t think we have enough chemistry to …
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