A matchmaker has met with (in-person) and interviewed ALL of her/his clients. She/he has an extensive profile on each client for prospects to view, along with several current pictures. In a matchmaking service the client and matchmaker work together collaboratively to select the most appropriate match. Both clients should be able to talk prior to …
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I am regularly contacted by local Denver dating services that don’t have enough clients to set their people up with whether I have people who they can match with their clients. They don’t ask me any info or share anything of substance about their clients. Yet they are charging YOU thousands of dollars to be …
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As far as I know Bon Jour Matchmaking is, and has been, the only Denver matchmaking service that has offered for 30+ years an open-ended contract FREE OF CHARGE to EVERY client. What is the value of an open-ended contract? There is no way to know when the “right” person for you will come in …
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WHAT’S THE DIFFERENCE? Let me count the ways that I am different from all those “matchmaking services” who sell packages of dates! First of all that says it right there…they sell packages of DATES so they are DENVER DATING SERVICES NOT MATCHMAKERS. Why, why, why would anyone pay thousands of dollars to let someone you’ve met …
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I’m flattered that so many people decide to call me first when they are doing their due diligence researching “matchmaking” services. Let me start by saying that they all call themselves “matchmaking” services when in reality they are merely DATING services. DATING services sell packages of dates for a finite period of time then if …
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I am often contacted by people calling themselves matchmakers, usually from outside of Colorado, wanting me to set up THEIR clients with my clients. I don’t know their clients, haven’t met or interviewed their client, don’t know the quality of their clients and don’t know them or their service. 7/8/25 I just had another out-of-state …
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I had a conversation with a very old friend of mine last night and was telling her about a new male client and how fantastic he is. She said “what’s wrong with him then?” Nothing is “wrong” with him. He is divorced once and has two children. He has absolutely everything going for him…of course …
As I tell my clients, I do all that I can to stack the deck in your favor as a client. Meaning being selective of who I present to you based on both your preferences and background as well as theirs. Selecting photos that while they present you in your best light DO look like …
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I am oh so careful about who I work with on behalf of my clients so as to save them time, aggravation and frustration. For the most part the majority of the people I accept seem to understand that and if they don’t I prefer they work with a service best suited to their goals …
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There are several aspects of Bon Jour Matchmaking that make it unique from other Denver matchmaking services. The open-ended contract, the one-time personalized investment fee, the amount of information supplied about each and every client and last but NOT least the coaching. Here is an example of how Michele the Matchmaker’s coaching can make or …
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