Author Archives: Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
In my opinion the?number 1 myth is…the more expensive a service is the more successful it is and the higher quality their clients are.? If you look at reviews of the most expensive services around the country as well as Denver matchmaking services, you will see many, many…

In my opinion the number 1 myth is…the more expensive a service is the more successful it is and the higher quality their clients are.  If you look at reviews of the most expensive services around the country as well as Denver matchmaking services, you will see many, many negative reviews.  So you should not judge …

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Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
Singles hire a matchmaker because they are having trouble of some kind in their interactions with dating.  Yes, it is to find the right person who has as yet been elusive, but there may be many things you yourself are doing that derail, curtail or just plain prevent…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
I received a call from a 62 year old doctor who is interested in dating women in their thirties and having children. He has never been married or had children. So now, at the age of 62 that’s his agenda. My women are ONLY interested in meeting men…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
I’d say first keep in mind how long the company has been in business. If it’s 5 years or less there shouldn’t be lots of negative reviews. If it’s 20+ or 30+ years you have to realize how many people they have worked with and even just by…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
When you read reviews of other Denver matchmaking services, they often state that they contacted the service multiple times after joining with no response. You will NEVER see that kind of review about Bon Jour Matchmaking Service or me! Conversely, I expect all of my clients to respond…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
I am often contacted by people calling themselves matchmakers, usually from outside of Colorado, wanting me to set up THEIR clients with my clients.  I don’t know their clients, haven’t met or interviewed their client, don’t know the quality of their clients and don’t know them or their…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
Open-ended contract…you are a client until…until you reach your goal; One Matchmaker who knows ALL of her clients; You are ONLY introduced to my clients who I’ve met personally, interviewed and who have had a background check; 33 years of experience in Colorado matchmaking; 300+ marriages; Feedback both…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
I am hearing from Denver singles on a regular basis how disappointed they are in the local matchmaking services they’ve chosen.  It is always the same reasons…too expensive, no information or photos of prospective matches, matches who are not even close to the criteria set forth initially/ongoing and…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
Keep these tips in mind as you navigate the dating landscape: Regarding Attraction: Women use all of their senses when falling in love.  According to researchers, men process their attraction with the right side of their brains, which is visually stimulated (surprise).  While women use their whole brain…