When you first contact me to ask questions about my service that is when we both start evaluating whether my structure, philosophy and personality fit for you and I assess whether you truly understand my philosophy, whether you are realistic, your dating attitude and whether we communicate well enough to work together. Also, whether you …
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BON JOUR MATCHMAKING SERVICE IS STILL A COLLABORATION AFTER 33 YEARS!
Shortly moving into my 33rd year as a Denver Matchmaker it becomes more and more clear that this service is not a dictatorship, but a mutual collaboration between client and Matchmaker. Looking back over these years I realize that is exactly why it has been so successful. The initial interview is a give and take …
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I ALWAYS DATE WOMEN 20 YEARS YOUNGER
Periodically I receive calls from men in their late fifties or early sixties who proclaim that they always date women 20 years younger and it’s never been a problem. If it’s never been a problem why are you calling a Matchmaker? As I’ve shared throughout this website I interview every client so I know the …
HOW DO DENVER MATCHMAKING SERVICES DECIDE YOUR FEE?
(Click on the link to go to post) After being a professional Denver Matchmaker for 33+ years I’ve been privy to how most Denver matchmaking services come up with your fee. First, most of them have a tier fee structure. So the more services you want from them the more they charge. If you stay …
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DO YOU WANT TO DATE OR A MATE?
It’s Your Choice… When deciding to use a matchmaking service one of the most important considerations is are you looking to “date” or to “mate”. You should feel that your investment is in your future, starting a brand new life with someone who you have chosen who has chosen you. If you are truly serious …
DIRECT AND HONEST or CHARISMATIC AND UNTRUSTWORTHY
Which Do You Prefer? Are you the type of person who falls for charm and charisma and lives to regret it? Those charismatic charmers are often called scammers. I have a relative who is very, very charismatic, however once he’s “got” you he’s like a snake and will bite you the minute you are off …
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Marry the First or Second Match?
What does that mean? Throughout the 36+ year history of Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, the majority of the 300+ couples who married sealed the deal with either their first or second introduction. NO that doesn’t mean you HAVE to marry the first or second person you meet. My goal is to be so discriminating in …
VETERAN MATCHMAKER WARNS OF REVIEWS OF MATCHMAKING OR DATING SERVICES
How to Interpret Negative Yelp Reviews of Businesses Owning a matchmaking service is a slippery slope…you are managing people’s hopes and dreams as well as egos and expectations. Many people who join a service have higher criteria for the people they meet in the service than they would in the “real” world. So they may …
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“I LOOK MUCH YOUNGER THAN MY AGE”…
(Click on the link to go to Post) 99% of the seniors who phone me for matchmaking tell me right away that they look and act much younger than their age. Well first of all this is Denver so lots of people feel that way and are correct, also at this point in time lots of …
Denver Matchmaking is Not Assembly Line Dating
I often tell the story of the last two couples who married through Bon Jour Matchmaking Service. The reason for explaining matching through a Denver Matchmaker is so that new clients are realistic with their expectations minimizing disappointment. As I’ve explained in previous posts there is no definitive way for me to predict how successful …
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