Starting in 1989 I have never had an investor give me money towards Bon Jour Matchmaking. I have never taken out a loan. For 34+ years it’s been all my own emotional and monetary investment in this service. That’s why people love Bon Jour! The intense personalized commitment and interaction with clients has been the …
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Every week I receive calls from singles who have used or spoken to other local Denver matchmaking services. What shocks me every time is the few questions these people ask the other services. Maybe because I conduct at least a 1 hour preliminary phone consultation they think of more questions to ask me…I don’t know. …
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Many of my clients have no trouble meeting people, however they do have trouble sealing the deal. Being an objective source to their actions I am in a perfect position to point out behavior that is undermining their success. For example, texting has been around for at least 10 years but I strongly discourage clients …
Click on the link to go to Post or Page Wow, where to start… Because I meet with and interview every client in my service, it is clear that they have no criminal history ( I conduct a background check prior to any interview), that they are sincere and serious about finding a mate, that …
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I just celebrated my 35th anniversary “practicing” Denver matchmaking. I don’t need any more practice I have it down LOL. Some facts about Bon Jour Matchmaking Service: (Please click on the link to go to Posts or Pages) This is an old fashioned matchmaking service with ONE professional Denver matchmaker; My goal is NOT to set …
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If you read through the bulk of the reviews of many Denver dating services and Denver matchmakers you will see a consistent theme. That the people who used them were not introduced to people who fulfilled their criteria and preferences. That is constant across the board…except for Bon Jour Matchmaking Service. Don’t think there’s even …
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In the past two weeks I have declined to work with about 10 singles who called for Bon Jour Matchmaking. In case it is not clear that means I turned down a minimum of $20,000 in income! WHY? It’s called being ethical. I know that is a foreign term in these days of greed, but …
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Singles hire a matchmaker because they are having trouble of some kind in their interactions with dating. Yes, it is to find the right person who has as yet been elusive, but there may be many things you yourself are doing that derail, curtail or just plain prevent successful long term relationships. One glaring example …
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While practicing professional matchmaking since 1989 and seeing which clients marry and which do not, as I mentioned many times in this Blog, stop looking for perfection. Whether you use the Internet dating sites, Meet Up, matchmakers or whatever if your standards are so high that either you can’t find people to fit them or …
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Our first interaction on the telephone or if you send me an email starts our journey to discover whether Bon Jour Matchmaking is the right Denver matchmaker for you and you are the right client for the service…whether, as your very personal matchmaker, I feel I can reasonably meet your expectations or I fear you …
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