Hiring a matchmaking service is a lot like hiring a financial adviser to direct you in the stock market. You invest your money hoping for a large return; you have patience because the market can go up and down and you are basically making an educated decision about this form of investment. Likewise in a …
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I’ve heard complaints from clients who have used both the Internet dating sites, apps and local dating/matchmaking services that the behavior of people they have met was inappropriate even though in some cases they’ve paid thousands of dollars for the service. I implemented this Behavioral Agreement for every client of Bon Jour Matchmaking from day …
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Shortly moving into my 33rd year as a Denver Matchmaker it becomes more and more clear that this service is not a dictatorship, but a mutual collaboration between client and Matchmaker. Looking back over these years I realize that is exactly why it has been so successful. The initial interview is a give and take …
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Periodically I receive calls from men in their late fifties or early sixties who proclaim that they always date women 20 years younger and it’s never been a problem. If it’s never been a problem why are you calling a Matchmaker? As I’ve shared throughout this website I interview every client so I know the …
(click on the blue print to go to link) Because I encourage Denver singles to phone me to discuss the service and their individual goals people say the darnedest things! Some of the comments Denver singles have made that are ridiculous and maybe give a slight hint why they are still single are: Your website …
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It’s Your Choice… When deciding to use a matchmaking service one of the most important considerations is are you looking to “date” or to “mate”. You should feel that your investment is in your future, starting a brand new life with someone who you have chosen who has chosen you. If you are truly serious …
Below you will see an e-mail I received this morning. The reason I am explaining this is because I must speak with you to answer questions like this person is asking in his e-mail. I suspect most singles think that I start evaluating them once they are in front of me interviewing, however I start …
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To Capture The Most Interest From The Opposite Sex If you are working with a genuine, professional Matchmaker she will have interviewed ALL of her clients personally. In which case she will know their preferences in most areas and be able to guide you through the first introduction with them as well as ongoing in …
AS THE REALITY TV DATING TURNS…(click on the light pink print to go to other posts) This week the 3 Matchmakers selected women again for the 2 new guys. One of the Matchmakers, Kelleher, decided to turn this into a real soap opera by having one guy’s ex-girlfriend there as one of the matches. That …
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People constantly ask me whether matchmaking is lucrative and how much money I make. They seem to want to judge this vocation by monetary success rather than what the basis of my chosen vocation is which is how many people working with me have reached their life goal of finding a mate. The reason I …
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